How to Give Feedback to Your Partner Without Triggering Defensiveness
The feedback sandwich is dead. Discover what actually works when giving feedback to your partner: method, moment, and mindset.
The feedback sandwich is dead. Discover what actually works when giving feedback to your partner: method, moment, and mindset.
Couples make hundreds of decisions together every year. Discover how to apply the Fisher-Ury negotiation method to your relationship and reach agreements with no losers.
Every couple argues. Those that survive are the ones who know how to repair. Discover Gottman's repair attempts and a 3-step process to reconnect after conflict.
The anxious-avoidant combination is the most common couple pairing and the one that suffers most. Sue Johnson, Bowlby, and Gottman explain why they attract, why they destruct, and how they can build a secure bond.
Gottman's emotional bank account is the metaphor that explains how small daily interactions build or destroy trust. Deposits, withdrawals, and how to keep your balance positive.
Sexual desire in long-term relationships fades not from lack of attraction but from an imbalance between safety and mystery. Esther Perel and Sue Johnson offer two complementary visions for reigniting the flame.
Harville Hendrix discovered that we unconsciously choose partners to heal childhood wounds. Imago Therapy explains why you are attracted to who you are attracted to, why the relationship hurts where you most need healing, and how to use that pain as a path to growth.
The Imago Dialogue by Harville Hendrix is a three-step communication technique — mirroring, validating, empathising — that transforms how couples talk and listen. Step-by-step guide with real examples.
Esther Perel revolutionised the understanding of infidelity by proposing that it does not always destroy the relationship — sometimes it transforms it. Her vision, the data, the controversies, and what to do if it happens to you.
A complete summary of John Gottman's 7 principles for making marriage work: from the Love Map to creating shared meaning. With practical exercises for each principle.
Gottman's "bids for connection" are the micro-requests for connection we make dozens of times a day. Happy couples respond to them 86 % of the time. Couples who divorce respond only 33 %. Learn to spot them and turn toward them.
The Love Map is John Gottman's foundational concept: a cognitive map of your partner's inner world. Discover what it is, why happy couples update it constantly, and how to build yours with practical exercises.
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